i understand now.

say a guy has feelings for a girl.

would u recommend that he tell her how he feels?

i would.

be honest and tell her how you feel id say. deal with the repercussions later.

at least u get it off your chest.

so it wont hurt so much if she didnt feel the same way as you.

well, i cant say if it works the other way around...

but anyway, id thought i share with you something funny:
so we were having our sahur. firdaus put 2 slices of bread on the top of his mug, with a thick layer of kaya on only the top slice. knocking over his mug,the top slice fell off and onto his hp. so his hp was covered in sticky kaya. but instead of wiping it off with tissue, he wiped his hp clean with the other piece of bread. o_0"